It’s 2016—bright, shiny and full of possibility. I am a lover of new years. I love making my lists and goals for the new year. This year I have a bit of a struggle: I really loved 2015. I kinda don’t want to say good-bye to it. In 2015 my family moved from the USA to the UK and loved it. In 2015 my lifestyle changed and I lost 60 pounds. In 2015 I saw people say yes to Jesus and lives changed. 2015 was good to me.
Brian and I like to set a word and a verse as a theme for our family for the year. And in the last week of the year, God pressed this word on my heart: Experience. Then the ball just started rolling. Goodbye to 2015 became easier as I started to ask myself: What do I need to do in my life to really experience this year?
- I need to stay as healthy as I can.
I know you can’t simply plan a healthy year. Sometimes, illness happens that we have no control over. But there are things that we can plan. The food I put into my body and the exercise I do—that is under my control.
And as I was thinking about that, God brought this verse to my mind as well:
Taste and see that the Lord is good. Psalms 34:8
I’ve always thought this was a kind of strange verse. But when I put it in the context with everything else God has been doing in my life it got me all kinds of excited! I already stated that I lost 60 pounds in the past year and that God is really teaching me a lot about health. Probably the greatest lesson I have learned is to eat real food: food that God created for us to eat. Taste and see that the Lord is Good.
- I need to spend less time on my phone.
I can deny it as much as I want, but I spend too much time distracted by my phone. It’s a fact and it needs to stop. To truly experience life around me- I need to look up and connect with life around me. Taste and SEE that the Lord is Good.
- I need to say NO.
I’ve written about this before so I won’t spend time on it now. But sometimes saying NO to good things makes room in your life for the best things.
- I need to say YES.
I’m not at all confusing am I? There is a time to say no and turn down opportunities. But experience is about taking risks. It’s about saying yes even when it makes my stomach churn and my head scream NO! In experiencing 2016 I want God to do things in my life that I don’t see coming, things that I can’t do on my own. That means I need to be willing to follow His leading in my life. I need to follow that leading even when it is outside my comfort zone. I don’t like typing that. It might seem like someone who left her home country shouldn’t have a struggle being a risk taker. Someone who followed God across an ocean should be a little spontaneous. You’d think that, right? I like my lists. I like my plans. It’s more than a little scary for me to pray, “God, mess my life up.”
It’s even scarier to mean it.
When I first came up with the theme of Experience, I had thoughts of family vacations and days out. I thought of hikes and new places. But what if God wants me to experience something totally different in 2016? What if my experiences are scary and even if they are not fun at the time? Am I content to know that “the Lord is Good”? Do I trust that He knows the plans He has for me, and that they are good plans? Do I trust that, even if they mess up my plans I have for myself? I pray at the end of the year I will be able to answer- yes, I trust that!
So that’s it. That’s the big plan for 2016. Experience. Moments not things. Stories not souvenirs. Risks not comfort. It’s time to taste and see that the Lord is good.
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“We never truly live; we are always in the expectation of living”! So said one pessimistic philosopher in years gone by. You have chosen a wonderful goal for the year. Enjoy each moment and use each opportunity that God opens up before you. We can not exhaust God’s buffet of life experiences. Its a shame so many people live on the same choices. I pray that this year holds some great experiences for you and the family (like a visit from your mom and dad)! — Love Dad
I’m hoping that’s one of the experiences too 😉
as usual, you are motivating and challenging!!!!
Thank you! I can’t wait to see what amazing things your family experiences this year too!
I love reading your blog. It always makes me think about what God is doing around me. I love the idea of setting a family goal and verse. You guys are great parents and I’m excited to see what God does in your life and mine this year.
I’m excited to see too Amy! Miss your family!